Have reconsidered after helpful discussion with a fellow DBer and put my ring back on. I already agreed with my W that our old R was dead and unhealthy so that message is clear -- does not need to involve the ring.

However, I am still standing for our marriage, and I don't want to give her or anyone else the impression that I am not. If she wants to leave it for good, she is still free to; life will go on for me either way.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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