p.s. I sent my text 5 hours ago which was about a day later--not on purpose--I wasn't going to text him at all, seriously! It was just me thinking about how to break the cycle of conflict avoidance....or the "culture" of conflict avoidance. One person at a time!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004