About his locations? Some yes, some no. I know about the kid event from his sister too though. Not from snooping, just came up in conversation. As far as the grown up parties, nope, and it doesn't do me any good to check. He hasn't said anything yet about wanting to work on our R.
Until then, I will just live my own life. He can deal with his own concequences when he gets around to it. I'm not his mom.
I'm going to be at my church's trunk-r-treat with my D anyway. He was invited, but isn't going with us. His loss, not mine.
BTW, I'm feeling prety detatched from H right now. It is kind of a good place for me. Spent evening watching a movie with my little girl. She gets really agressive right before she gets sick and got in trouble a bunch for hitting at daycare. Sure enough she started the runny nose just as soon as we got home. I scrapped my plans for tonight and let us both rest. It was nice. We deserved the break.
