One other change that I noticed over his last couple of visits is that H is starting to tell me where he is going. He is volunteering this information, I don't ask what he is doing unless it directly impacts my daughter or my own schedule. Last night he told me where he would be taking our daughter for a kid halloween event with her little cousins and who was throwing the Halloween parties he was going to after he passed her back to me. We are also all going together, along with her big cousins, for trick-r-treating.