Wife is cheating, am sad but confused?

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Seems to me you are mind reading her. Dont do that. It wont get you anywhere.

It also sounds to me like the both of you are the kind of people who do not look at you when you talk to you. Am I right?

It's just me but I consider this to be extremely rude and could account to your and / or her communication problems with each other.

A little common courtesy goes a long way.

For example, if somebody calls ME on the phone and then proceeds to talk to another person on their end as if I did not exist, I will simply hang up on them. I don't have time to play games like that. My time is valuable and if you want to talk to me then do it or write me a post card. No games.

Just my two cents.