I don't know if that is possible. Seems like a bunch of new-agey cr@p to me! lol
I agree. How can anyone who was crapped on and abandoned not feel anger, resentment, sadness etc even years after it happened. It will always be there to some extent. IMO to say otherwise is denial.
It's how you deal with it that matters. And just because I still have both possitive and negative feelings towards my XW does not mean I can not have a new and sucessful R with somebody new.
Everybody has baggage at our age. Its what you do with it that matters. My new girl will benefit from both my mistakes as well as my XWs mistakes. Ironic but true. There are lessons in that baggage for everyone.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
