And just for the record, because I don't have my "stats" in my signature, I am one of the men on this site who is currently in peicing, and it's going well.
This after I spent the crappiest and most horrible 5 months pursuing my wife... FINALLY accepting that the only men who actually DO get second chances are the ones that really DO just let her go... Letting her. No contact, and I mean zero words spoken for almost 3 months (no kids) and one little phone call, which was intentionally to talk about the divorce, and here I am,
Both my wife and I slept with other people, both of us had rebound relationships.
It as horrible.
effin' HORRIBLE.
It tore us both apart.
That lasted 5 months.
And then we just got the hell away from each other. Completely.
Funny things happen when you just let go and live your own life, and I'm talking BOTH of you now.
You BOTH need to get away from each other and really see what life is like without.
If you both really DO love each other, you WILL get a second chance at it. If you DO love each other, I guarantee it.
Holy crap... I did not mean to go on such a huge rant... Sorry.
And now, my wife should be just getting on the train to come to my apartment and eat pizza and watch a movie.
