step 2. if someone is not interested in you, move on to the next. that maybe the only change you really need to make.
what is so attractive about someone who isn't interested to you? it seems like they need to be making some changes and get with the program.
I hear you McQ, but the whole DB thing stresses making changes, doing 180's. Everyone here also talks about making changes. I have been thinking along your lines for quite a while now. Why should I change into someone I am not to attract someone? I want someone who values me for, well, me.
I guess what is so attractive about the WAS is the GREAT life we used to have, or at least I thought we had. It is hard to accept that it is lost and having to start over, especially with kids. There is still a great life ahead, but it can be hard to see the forest sometimes, for all the trees that are in the way at the moment.
