When my XH left the only thing he said was "I was happier when I lived (alone) on Stevens Avenue". This to me sounds like someone who is depressed and doesn't have the energy/capacity to negotiate all of the everyday things someone has to in a R. When you wrote what you did about your H preferring to live alone it reminded me of what MY H/XH said.
Remember............believe none of what they say and only half of what they do.
