Interesting. I will say that I'm so new to this that I reserve the right to change my mind about everything here.

I seem to have taken the exact oppisite message from the demise of my marriage. I was cheated on and lied to and dumped while still on the other side of the world. Luckily we have no kids. What have I learned from this? The ability to heal and the need to dissapoint sometimes.

In my next relationship if it is not right, I'll have no qualms about ending it. Yes it will hurt them, but I'm not afraid of that. I have absolutely NO desire to hurt anyone, but I really don't want to go on in something if both parties are not 100%. It will hurt MUCH more in the end.

M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011