I keep coming back to the thought that I need to just tell her, "w, you do not respect and value our relationship enough to even put forth an effort. If you are not willing to try then I need to fully move on with my life." I just don't know if this is the right thing to do or if I need to use more patience with what's been going on. Deep down I know that's what I need to do but I don't have to say it. I just have to do it.