I will go trick or treating with the W and kids, if she starts in on anything i will put my foot down and say "this is not the time or place". I can handle being around the W for a couple hours, in one of her texts she says " i know you despise me and dont want to be around me, but its important for us to get along for the kids, can you try?"
The thing is that I dont despise her, I just am not going to be her BFF like I have told her before. We do not need to be buddies, I told her we can be civil and that is it. She still says she is not worried about any of the D stuff, but that she is worried about me, I do not respond to that. I was going to say to her there is no reason to worry about me, we are getting divorced and I have survived on this planet for 30 of my 38 years without you, I can handle myself. She probably thinks I am doing steroids and going out all the time drinking with friends.
She also made acomment about how I tried to lie to her the other day. I of course said what did I lie about this time? she wouldnt say. so I then say we arent even together anymore and you are accusing me of lying? what purpose would that serve? she doesnt respond. Does she truly not grasp what this Divorce means? or does she just want everything her way and I am supposed to just say ok? I think I made TH mad, he doesnt write on my thread anymore.
