Originally Posted By: pinhead
Ok, just a heads up to some of the newbies. Trust me, I've learned these things the hard way:

1. You're not as smart as you think! If you think you can get tagged by your spouse and not have it set your DBing back, trust me, you're wrong.

Learn from mistakes. Don't repeat what did not work.

2. No R talks means no R talks. Deflect, defuse, defer. They do you nooooooo good.

They are not attracted to you and don't want to be with you so it's a wasted time clinging and pursuing. Become attractive.

3. Don't initiate anything physical, even if your spouse accepts it. It's pursuing. Make them initiate.

Be the catnip. Make them beg.

4. The Pinhead Test... If your spouse won't give you a great, I mean great kiss, then they're holding back or not "feeling it." Don't be fooled.


For Pinheads only.

Enjoy the Silence