I realize it's probably too soon right now, but an old friend once said that a sure fire test of seeing how the woman really felt.....as to test her sexual response by giving her a deep, long, wet kiss(I added a little to his description) and make it long enough to "test" her true response to you. Did you know that some women can have sex easier than the intimacy of kissing? There is something about that intimate kiss that tells it all.
No she and I are going to be exclusive. She does not want anyone else and she has a year lease and we will keep seeing Co. So we will date on the weekends mostly since sh is holed up at work. May see each other during the week sometimes too. She stated to me that there was no emotional attachment to OG and she did meet him labor day weekend when the stuff hit the fan. When I asked again if she indeed did cut him off this morning she emphatically said yes and backed it up with he was just someone to hang out with but its done. Hence S's party was canceled!!
She stated to me that there was no emotional attachment to OG and she did meet him labor day weekend when the stuff hit the fan. When I asked again if she indeed did cut him off this morning she emphatically said yes and backed it up with he was just someone to hang out with but its done.
How long was she with him again? From what I've read, affairs don't just die that easily.
It started labor day weekend. She got trashed at a bar and met him while I had left on our vacation. She had stayed up on facebook all night the day before our vaction till 11:30 the next morning. I left for the beach hotel about 3pm while she was passed out. I left her a message saying to come when she sobers up. she never came so I went back the next day where I did not see her till Tues with OG. I searched our phone records and facebook . Found his number in phone records but it did not show up anywhere till that saturday. Also when i got the celphone from her she had texted her son's GF that sunday saying she was with "that guy again". So it was short lived and he was a loser. She is very tough chick and does not like wimpy guys and he was from what her son told me. Unfortunetly I think she did sleep with him drunk, how many times I don't know. That I will wait for the Co to address.
Excited about tonite. want to see her but I have to be cool about it.
Over the last 8 weeks after labor day W/E W was comong around. She suggested the Co. she has another appoint next Thurs. But she was not commiting to anything. She talked to me during the week and weekends she was out getting drunk who knows where with who knows who? This pissed me off. I felt used and stupid so i did what Robx and coach and many others out here suggested. I called her on it. Said I would not stand for the cheating and i was seeing a lawyer. that was last Saturday. Monday I hear from her and she is shocked that I would see a lawyer and thought "we were working it out?"
she asked me to never do that to her again and she has been open and we are spending time together this W/E and she says there is no OM and she wants to work on it! I know this does not usually work like this but as the W says we have a powerful connection, we have for 10 years. We always seem to attract to each other.
I just wonder why a young pretty thing, just turned 38 would want to be with a guy who is about to be 49. She could have alot of men. Oh yeah, I know why, I'm a damn great guy who looks 40 and acts 25.. LOL
she asked me to never do that to her again and she has been open and we are spending time together this W/E and she says there is no OM and she wants to work on it! I know this does not usually work like this but as the W says we have a powerful connection, we have for 10 years. We always seem to attract to each other.
Be wise!
Cary Grant: I can't help recalling some of your remarks about being a new woman. Daisies and buttercups, wasn't it? Ingrid Bergman: You idiot! What are you sore about, you knew very well what I was doing! Cary Grant: Did I? Alicia: You could have stopped me with one word, but no, you wouldn't. You threw me at him! Cary Grant: I threw you at nobody. Ingrid Bergman: Didn't you tell me what I had? Cary Grant: A man doesn't tell a woman what to do; she tells herself. You almost had me believing in that little hokey-pokey miracle of yours, that a woman like you could change her spots. Ingrid Bergman: Oh, you're rotten. Cary Grant: That's why I didn't try to stop you. The answer had to come from you. Ingrid Bergman: I see. Some kind of love test. Cary Grant: That's right.
