Good words Hope. It is true, my W has confirmed all this. They have to see it for themselves, however long that takes and whatever it is that finally snaps them out of the fog. That's why everyone talks about use this time for yourself, because its the only thing you can be certain of.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11