Starting new thread. Today is 5 months of separation. W's personal emotional state has improved since outset. I am much different (better) person/dad than at bomb. Less anger/tension between W and me. W says I am now "fixed," but she is still broken and still needs time to "fix" herself. Both of us in IC. W says she has major trust issues in addition to depression/self-esteem issues.
I never call/text/email W. Try to avoid R discussion with W. Various GAL activities. W contacts me for various reasons and calls me a fair amount to go out and have dinner as family.
Kiddos are doing pretty good. Some adjustment/behavior issues with D2 and D5 that seem to be worse with W.
Halloween approaching with lots of family events planned. I am going to dress as DJ Lance from Yo Gabba Gabba.
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304