Well I had my laugh for the year. The OM sent me a text asking me to meet him so we can finish what he wanted to start on tuesday. I told him I wasnt interested and told him to grow up. He proceeded to call me a chicken! Are you fu@*#ng kidding me? I told him to talk to my wife and let her explain why it wasnt a good idea for 6' 150lb body to get near my 6'2" 265lb one. I broke my own boundaries and sent a message to my wife telling her to rain in her boyfriend. I sent her his texts and told her to control her man. She did laugh and say she would take care of it.
What a joke, I'm so glad I walked away the first time. He is starting to show his true colors, maybe this is a good thing. According to her they have a perfect relationship. They dont fight, never discuss their feelings or the future. According to her it is just day by day, no committment, no stress of day to day life. Well go figure, I have the kids, the mortgage and the day to day stress that comes with that responsibility. She is now unemployeed, has a very expensive car to pay for no where to take the kids as she has burned all bridges with family. Now I have set my boundaries and i will not live in an open marriage and will not allow her any of the conviences of married life with me. I have Family responsibility after her, and now they know she quit her job so they are pushing for a judge to take her passport and drivers license until she makes payment arrangements for the arrears.
So I guess life's stresses are starting to interject into their perfect little world.
I have to admit, I take great joy in him calling me a chicken, what are we 12?
so thats my rant for the day. Hope others got a good laugh out of it, cause i sure did.
