My wife was effectively dating a married man(her old boss) only a week after she filed. I wore my ring for 6 months, stuck to my vows, and DB'd like M.W.D. herself.

I look back on that now and think of how dumb I must have looked to my W.

I went on a date with a stranger at about the 10 month post filing mark. The date was over and I never spoke to that person again. It did help me realise that I was still ok. That I could carry on after divorce.

My divorce was final a couple months ago and I am doing fine. I am starting to formulate what it is I want in a partner and along the way I will meet a lot of intersting people. smile


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final