Well where do I begin,my sitch is going down hill at a fast pace. I was informed by my W that she may be in love with OM. I really did not respond but inside I am dying. On another note went to my first session with my C. Boy it was a relief. We just got to know one another. I explained my last 25 years with the W and all the drama. One thing that I thought was funny as she said some stuff that I have read on here. Such as W's emotions are all over the place. She did agree that getting myself in check and being the best dad is what I need to do. I had to go over the house last night because the washing machine went on the fritz. My BIL called me today about the washer and said that W was proud of me for jumping out of bed and coming right over. I thought that was nice. He did tell me that her OM is just a friend and nothing else, I told him I do not know about that. His advice was to give her space and become her friend first then maybe I can be her husband again. I will wait and see.