Hmmm, that is all very useful and thoughtful information Hope. I like it. Keep it coming smile !!!

I was worried about the 'him justifying thing'... will have to consider that heavily.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."