I have been thinking about rejoining FB for this purpose. I have also been toying with creating an e-mail account and sending myself some interesting msgs from an OM that doesn't exist cause I know he is monitoring my e-mail... thinking of using that to my advantage
However, I feel that I need to let him know, when the timing is right that I love him but don't want him anymore, that he is a different person now. Unless he knows I have let go, I don't think he will ever figure out what he has lost. (I have definitely been showing it in my actions...) Nor do I think I will ever get him to give me the intensive weekend therapy session I want regarding closure/clarity... if something else comes out of it, great but I really do want this no matter the outcome of the marriage...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
