Making Progress made a good point, she can't believe you are still hanging on to her. She's treating you like c!ap and you are hanging around like a lost puppy. I know why and that you do want to save your marriage and family - the best advice here will go against what you feel is going to work.
Your wife needs to feelyou pulling away and leting her go. It's attractive, it shows her you value yourself. Start agreeing with her - takes all the pressure off her. No R talks. And start becoming mysterious (like going to the Novena, that was good).
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She then said, "I don't care, that's up to you, none of my business." "You are right it is up to me what goes on in my house and it is none of your business" As she was leaving, I gave in and said, "You know how I feel and that hasn't changed." NO R TALK! She said, "Good, you can feel that way." Then as I put D3 into her car seat I asked, "why are you so angry with me?" NO R TALK! She replied, "Because you keep pushing me for something I don't want. She feels pressure Do you want me to find somebody for you?" Good God no! I can find someone much better on my own, thanks. So, as she left I said, "You know, I didn't get married to get divorced." NO R TALK! She said, "Neither did I. Don't think that's going to change anything." "I understand that. I don't think anything is going to change."
When you agree it takes off pressure and shows you a listening to her. She can't argue if you agree.
Where are you in LA? I am up north.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
