This is EXACTLY correct and EXACTLY what happened in my situation. I'm still not sure that I understand why this is though. We are making the changes that they asked us to make because we love them and want them to be happy. Why is that a bad thing?
Because you are making the changes for YOU not for them.
You are on two separate journies. She is on one and you are on your own.
When you get down the road you can maybe connect again and build a new marriage.
