Buying another car will allow her to get a job and free us up from each others personal lives. If we have two cars then we no longer have to schedule [censored] around each other. Its not a new plan its something that we were doing anyways before this happened. Its just more important to get done now.

As far as splitting the money.. thats a temporary thing to me. As we move down the line I'm going to cut her off. Remember to I have DA charges. The best way to deal with that is to just have her not show in court voluntarily, then the prosecutor has no case. So I have to consider that as well moving forward