I LOVE my H's six inches (well, seven, but who's counting? )! I wish that I could love it more often!

I have tried being more aloof with my husband and once I went SIX WEEKS without so much as mentioning sex and definitely no initiation. It didn't phase him one bit. I think he actually was RELIEVED that I didn't ask anymore. And we didn't fight as much either. Well, until I finally lost it one night and started ranting and raving. Needless to say, he was more that a little confused by my "sudden" anger.

We DO have so much to be grateful for and proud of. We do have a lot going for us in our lives and our marriage. I especially seem to have been blessed lately. I just started the job of my DREAMS, where not only do I get to do something I enjoy, but I get to make a lot of money at it. We have a beautiful, brand new home, and we have healthy families and friends. That is the crappy part about this desire disparity. When it really gets to me, it taints the other wonderful things that we have together. I get so mad that he could do this to me/us, and I know that I can't OWN the problem, but it's so hard not to take it personally. Sex IS personal, and there is not a darn thing I can do about that.

I am glad that is willing to go to counseling again, and I am going to make him stick to it. We both agreed that the last counselor was ineffective, and he says that he wants to work on this and that he realizes that it is not fair to me. So, I am hopeful and trying to be optimistic.