I think it is. Though I certainly wouldn't have said that a year ago. Do I still have issues with my ex, yes just as anyone that I know. I don't regret that we got married because I have 4 great kids from it.

I could stay stuck and blame him for everything going wrong in my life or I can take ownership of what it is and move forward. I choose to move forward. I didn't make the choices he did. I didn't make him have an affair but there were things in my marriage that I could have done differently and I accept that.

I see that he didn't always appreciate things that I did. Maybe we outgrew each other. Regardless, I have done tons of self reflection and I just know that I am better off because I have the chance to now find someone that can share all those fun things with me. Nothing worse than dragging a stick in the mud along and ruin things for everyone!

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory