I've got my head around it now!! Thanks to everyone!

So I'm moving on the best I can, I understand the letting go situation so much better now, I need to say no alot more to her.

But I think 3 weeks is too short to start any D movement, I maybe wrong again, but any thoughts would really help.

I need to be strong and let go BIG time for my own sanity!!

I need to forget about her coming back, and move on, I could do with some female company actually so this might not be a bad thing!!!!