A couple days ago she pushed me away in the morning when I was trying to cuddle up to her and build some intimacy. I told her later "I feel sad and rejected when you push me away from you" She replied "you're to sensitive" to which I replied "No, those are my feelings".
Later in the evening after discussing my employer's health insurance, I was playing with my guitar pick and she said "stop making those annoying sounds" and I replied "I'm not going to tolerate being talked to in that manner so this discussion is over and we can resume it later when your calm". A little later I told her "I will not tolerate being talked down to or being talked to in a disrespectful tone. When that happens I will walk away from the conversation"
Yesterday I needed to get new tires so while I was waiting I had an important issue that needed to be addressed...we started discussing via TM. When we got home she was short so I asked her if she was in a bad mood and she said "now I am" I asked why and she said "you interrupted my me time". Told her I didn't realize it was your "me time". I then said "I'm no longer going to tip toe around issues and I'm not concerned if that upsets you.We have an issue that needs to be discussed so I decided to start the discussion."
Later she said that she was irritated with me and I told her "I don't appreciate being called irritating". She said she was sorry and that irritated was the wrong thing to say and that she just wants to be left alone.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
