Hmm, the point I was making is that is exactly the place that the WAW is coming from when they want to be friends. They "like" you but they are in love with someone else. If I had a girlfriend I was so into that I left my W and kids nothing else would matter to me. I would be "happy" and I would want everyone else to be "happy." I can still make my XW laugh herself to tears and I beleive she does "like" me but I don't beleive that she loves me at all.
I understand not wanting to see her and that is what I am doing myself. I know it is not the right approach to try to get her to come back but I don't want her to come back anymore. Do you want yours to come back?
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
