you could just as easily be having that dinner and wearing that suit with another woman, in fact, that was the goal remember, inspiring some fear of loss, letting your wife go, giving her what she wanted, remember if you're always there, she really can't feel you letting her go. Let's be honest, you're still on this forum giving us updates because that is your end goal, you want your wife to pursue you (because that's the only way any of this will work), a dinner with her is just rewarding her for ... WHAT? Wouldn't be my decision in your situation but you are free to do as you want, you always have been.
- something to think about ;-)
Thanks for asking Rob, but yes, I am sure I am not rationalizing pursuing. In fact, I am almost sure WAW doesn't view it that way either. I think she sees that I can now share such an experience with her and expect nothing in return.
I know this is a strange one, but I am a strange guy and am newly happy in my strange guy skin and confident in my decisions.
When I first thought of the noniversary dinner, I actually thought "what would RobX say?". Thanks for the relaity check and thanks for not drilling me with a 2 x 4.
