When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[Dagny-2]

Mishka,

Thinking of you and keeping you and your family in my prayers. I agree that thinking about your R right now is too much, easier said than done, though. I read advice recently about what to do when in a type of crisis mode, it is a bit simplified, but that is about all my brain can handle these days: Do what is next. I think that is mostly focusing on just one thing at a time, as simple as shower now, next fix kids breakfast, and just do what needs to be done. You have so much going on right now, I think you need to allow yourself to just be you, and it won't be perfect, no way it could be, the strain you are under is enourmous and you need to be kind to you, too!