Gr8, I don't have any advice for you and am interested myself because I NOW believe MY W could have have written this part:

Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
Thing is, that I was very angry with you for so many things. Not working on the problems when I brought them up and letting them get so far as to me leaving before making a concerted effort to change. It took me a long time to not be mad at you anymore and everyone has said they can tell that I am not angry with you any more. I needed to get passed the anger first. But you wanted immediate results, an answer right now. You played games with me for the first 6 months & then stopped trying at all with me after that. Six months! I put in 8 years of trying with you. The main problems were problems from day one & I continually tried with you, repeatedly.


Except I'm only a 1 month in....long road ahead.


M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11