OK, thanks to you both. I will continue to think through this. I think he still thinks he is getting away with me not knowing... deep down he knows I am sure, but the fantasy world is all he can seem to think about.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."