but what I see in my wife now is guilt about hurting me, hurting my daughters, fear of being on her own, financial fears, fear of loneliness.
Just like me, she has scrambled from solution to solution, trying to avoid the reality that she's no longer in love with me
So...keep on DBing...lots of similarities with my sitch...this can change over time
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11