Hi You need to have a serious talk about this. You've only been married for 7 months and you are very unhappy. OK it's good in other ways, but can you put up with this for the rest of your life? You wouldn't ask for a D on account of it, but you will slowly drift apart. You will become less close. You will find attention from others hard to ignore. What about having children? You are still young and you may want this in the future even if not right away.
Can you have a sensible talk about this at a time away from the bedroom. You must be nice but spell out the consequences of going on like this. It is not going to work out. An M is difficult enough when everything is OK. With this problem every other little thing is going to be much harder to deal with. Because I found it difficult to talk to my H about our problems I wrote him a letter about it. Since then things have improved but it has been quite a slow process. That's OK with me as long as I see some improvements and know that he loves me. You will probably have to compromise too but that shouldn't be a problem. Just don't let things drag on any longer the way they are.
