Not sure where to start or end, WAW? - #3

[TimeHeals]

I recently switched to Costco's Kirkland brand dryer sheets: amazingly refreshing

I have the new Glade™ candles

[soleil]

John,

Take this with a grain of salt. Go file for D. Get out of your marriage, and then date to your heart's content. If Professor Plum is willing to wait for you, all the better. But you're having an affair... All the justifications you're using are the same as the WAS we keep reading about.

Question for the board.. and I know there will be so many different viewpoints... What if D is filed already... is it ok to date or not? I know some Ds take YEARS to complete.

[Starsky309]

I think it is, for the very reason you state, Soleil.

Starsky

[pinhead]

John,

Take this with a grain of salt. Go file for D. Get out of your marriage, and then date to your heart's content. If Professor Plum is willing to wait for you, all the better. But you're having an affair... All the justifications you're using are the same as the WAS we keep reading about.

Question for the board.. and I know there will be so many different viewpoints... What if D is filed already... is it ok to date or not? I know some Ds take YEARS to complete.

I think it's fine to date once you've filed. My W wouldn't date me at all until my divorce was completed, but I had no problems with it either way.

[hurtinhartford]

soleil,

I think it is okay to date as well, but in John's case he should wear a chastity belt

That could be a good thread topic. we have Sandi2's Do's and Dont's list for LBS. We should come up with a Do's and Don't list for dating. I have a few suggestions on that!

[PMA_Baby!]

What if I told you that I wasn't allowed to pick up a musical instrument in my own home and play it because it "annoys" my W?

Well. I would ask you if "you are a MAN or a MOUSE?" I'm not trying to be mean, BUT Seriously?!?! Conversations like these are critical in establishing RESPECT in a R/M. I would also say by letting her get away with this you have ENABLED her immature behavior for a VERY long time and now you EXPECT her to just stop it.

About refreshing, the new dark axe spray is a chick mag and totally refreshing.

[hurtinhartford]

I use it as a breath freshener! I also like the new AXE mints as well.

[TimeHeals]

We should come up with a Do's and Don't list for dating. I

Oh! I have enough material to fill a book or two or three on that topic. I am much more experienced at dating than marriage

[soleil]

soleil,

I think it is okay to date as well, but in John's case he should wear a chastity belt

You guys are cracking me up!

That could be a good thread topic. we have Sandi2's Do's and Dont's list for LBS. We should come up with a Do's and Don't list for dating. I have a few suggestions on that!

We should come up with a Do's and Don't list for dating.

Oh! I have enough material to fill a book or two or three on that topic. I am much more experienced at dating than marriage

All right, someone start a Dos/Donts list for dating during this D thing...

[TimeHeals]

Dating advice 1.

I've always struggled with this one, but Listen. This could probably work in marriage too.

If you are on a date with a woman, and she's talking, do your best to act interested. It's difficult, I know. Coffee helps.

Better yet, if she says she wants to tell you something, tell her, "Yes, and don't leave anything out". Women love that.