Well she moved out. It seems to progress to something faster when they move out. Than the fantasy of the affair becomes real. That person becomes no longer an affair, it becomes real. My W sounded pretty disgusted when I asked about OG, she was like " yes Its over" with some distain in her voice for the R. That was a good sign..
She is at dentist. We canceled tonite, were both too busy to attempt it and both have not slept well. We are going to meet tomorrow night. Slow down Rondo!!
It sounds like you deserve it Atossup. Just do like everyone else is saying. When they leave you are suppose to control your emotions. You should not stop doing that now just because she wants to come back. Use your head and keep your giddyness to yourself. Good Luck.
Are you talking about "when" she moved out of your house, or are you saying she has moved out of her place, now, and moving back in with you?
Don't mean to burst your bubble, but I am always leary when a WAW in an A has such a fast turn-around, and I can't see threats of getting a lawyer doing that. (However, dropping the rope could.) She could have had a real eye-opener to OM.......or he may have dropped her on her can once she was on her own. So, naturally she would turn to her old best friend.
Remember....sexual attraction, not BFF. Make her prove herself.
I realize it's probably too soon right now, but an old friend once said that a sure fire test of seeing how the woman really felt.....as to test her sexual response by giving her a deep, long, wet kiss(I added a little to his description) and make it long enough to "test" her true response to you. Did you know that some women can have sex easier than the intimacy of kissing? There is something about that intimate kiss that tells it all.
If she breaks the kiss first (before it's really been long enough) then she's not ready and just wants friendship. I'm not saying to try this today,but when the time is right......do it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Thanks Db9 and Sandi, Its always been hard to get W to really kiss. She has TMJ and can't really keep her mouth open (damn)lol. She just saw the big TMJ dentist yesterday in town and he said its getting worse but its 4 grand for the procedure. We are going to chk with benefits to seee whats covered.
No she is not moving back in with me at least for a year. But we had a great conversation last night. She was open about everything. OG was not long term. Just an escape and when he wanted more from the relationship she broke it off. Her son now has no place for a bachlor party!! I did not address the sex part, that will be for Co office. We covered our relationship and what happened? She is actually talking about moving back out here in a year. We have a date tonite and friday and she told me to bring my dog to her place so I don't have to drive home Friday. Don't worry, I will hold her but that's it. Not ready for anything else.
I will let the sexual chemistry build and she commented on how good I looked. 20 pds in 8 weeks. Where does that diet exist. She is happy we are talking and connecting. She called me at 7:30 this morning cause she wanted to talk before work. As of this moment I'm pensive but happy about this.
an old friend once said that a sure fire test of seeing how the woman really felt.....as to test her sexual response by giving her a deep, long, wet kiss(I added a little to his description) and make it long enough to "test" her true response to you. Did you know that some women can have sex easier than the intimacy of kissing? There is something about that intimate kiss that tells it all.
I realize it's probably too soon right now, but an old friend once said that a sure fire test of seeing how the woman really felt.....as to test her sexual response by giving her a deep, long, wet kiss(I added a little to his description) and make it long enough to "test" her true response to you. Did you know that some women can have sex easier than the intimacy of kissing? There is something about that intimate kiss that tells it all.
But we had a great conversation last night. She was open about everything. OG was not long term. Just an escape and when he wanted more from the relationship she broke it off.
And you are assuming here that she's telling you the truth?
After she's lied to you repeatedly thoughout your sitch (if I'm reading it correctly)?
