The only comparison I can draw is the long term girlfriend I had before I met W. After five years our relationship was dying, and she (of course) got involved with another man before telling me she wanted out. A couple years later I met W and we were great together, and even after we were engaged, if I saw my old girlfriend at a party, I was not comfortable being in the same room with her. That situation was nothing compared to this.
I don't see myself being comfortable with W in the room, regardless of what's going on with me.
