Pinhead- I had typed up a long response. Stopped. Deleted it. No value added. You got Coach, Robx, Truegritter, Lance...some real heavy hitting advice with a variety of different approaches.
So - why are you getting so much attention. I think for 2 reasons. One is that you have helped many others and are genuine. And secondly, because your situation has a lot of hope remaining. People want a success story, whatever that might be...
And finally, 2 months dude...that isn't a long time. I didn't realize it had only been 2 months. PATIENCE. At 2 months I was still dealing with raging hatred and I was the most dispicable creature on the face of the earth.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11