We woke up this morning and it started with her being very angry at me.
She says she talked to a advocacy group yesterday ( which I knew ) and that me taking over the finances was a "Financial Abuse". I tried to reason with her a little bit but she just kept repeating that's "Financial Abuse" like a 5 year old. At that point I just said I am sorry but I don't want to argue with you and stopped engaging.
She then said she wanted it to be like its been before for the past 10 years. I told her that our circumstances are not like they have been for the past ten years anymore.
So now she has it in her head that I am abusing her. I'm not giving her back the bank account though.
Our current arrangement ( set by me): - I pay the bills, shes never told me the schedule though so I am screwed here. - I put money into joint account to take care of groceries, gas, and stuff for her. - I told her after the bills are paid I'll split money with her.
I don't see how she can believe she can tell me she wants a divorce, starts seeing OM, and everything will be the same.
