My xh , in hindsight, was more than I could have asked for in so many way, but was never what I thought he was in other ways. ... And once you truly forgive them, and they repeat the bad behavior, it seems like you'll never be able to trust them again...and would you be willing to try? I took a lot for granted over the years, but I was also wearing rose-colored glasses in other areas of the relationship.
Not sure what you meant by the above. Did he reconcile with you and then left again ? May I ask what did you mean by saying you were looking thru rose colored glasses? So you and your XH are not friendly towards each other? Is that because you took him back and he left you again ? Your children have no contact ? Our sons are 27 & 23 and they barely contact me but I know they contact him less. That's because they are men and have a life of their own. BUT I am thinking that they don't contact me everyday. I hear from them about once a week or 2 weeks.
Would I be able to contact you in a regular email ? I really like what you wrote to me.
