1) If you told her 1-2 weeks while she looks YOU MUST HOLD HER TO IT! If you cave, you've set yourself up.
2) When you say "Sorry it took so long", by my count it was 3 weeks since you registered. I don't think that is long. However, I think these tactics are much more powerful when done quickly.
3) I'm only a few days into my decision. I already feel MUCH better. Once you've decided, just go implement it.
Good luck!
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011