We have not been split up for 3 years, it has only been 3 weeks!!
We have had problems though for about 4months, but I have not been the best husband for 2-3 years really, promotion, stress, drinking, etc
I have had the kids for a night and had the next day off with them, we had a great time, did loads of things together it was excellent!!! Then about a few hours before I was due to drop them off, my w called to say that she had been in a car crash the night before, her car looked like it was a right off, and that if I could keep them a little later that would help.
I said that I will keep them all night and drop them off in the morning, I then asked what happened, etc, to which she said somebody ran into the back of her, and not to worry, when I asked where it was she said what difference does that make?
I just said fine, and left it.
I really cannot be bothered at all with her, I think there is an OM involved but I have nothing to base that on? She is just so "closed" to any converstaion that I don't know if she is hiding something or is just closed to me in general.
Anyway took the kids this morning, they are great and really holding up well, but my son who is 11, is hurting, I can see it in his eyes, he is always telling me he loves me, and misses me, but he's trying not to show he is hurting, brave brave boy.
With the time we have been split so short do you still think I should push for D, or wait a few more weeks?
Also how do I tell her, in a text, phone call, in person??
I feel i'm back in limbo land, she has the control, and I don't like it, how do I take it back?
