BTM,

If you want to be "friends" you'll get no arguement from me. ALL of my exGFs are "friends". That does NOT mean I'd take them out for a $400 meal. I would buy them lunch or a cheap dinner on occasion.

Do you buy you male friends dinner?

It is true you do have a different kind of bond with your stbxw. But really, wouldn't that $$ be better spent on a college fund for your kids?


M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011