If you want to be "friends" you'll get no arguement from me. ALL of my exGFs are "friends". That does NOT mean I'd take them out for a $400 meal. I would buy them lunch or a cheap dinner on occasion.
Do you buy you male friends dinner?
It is true you do have a different kind of bond with your stbxw. But really, wouldn't that $$ be better spent on a college fund for your kids?
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011