You've been at this too long for very little or no results. ...
If she wants to label what she's doing as MLC, depression, finding herself, whatever, who cares? You can't control her, what she does or says and seriously, you wouldn't want that responsibility of controlling her either, too much trouble and hassle for no reward.
Umm... okay... I totally agree with you on the 'you can only control your own actions' aspect Rob. But this? They've been married for 11 years, and Pin's been making changes since, what, July? Not even 4 months ago!! So trying for 4 months to fix potentially 11 years of distance is "too long for no results"? Good grief, can we give his wife a chance here before we toss her aside and say "who cares" about her?
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
