WAW 20 years not sure where I am right now.

[Pensacolabroken]

Update.

Lame birthday attempt from wife. She was not into it and it felt forced. I pretended to enjoy it all for S sake.

After son is in bed she asks me if I plans this weekend because she does. I say I do and am going out Saturday night. she says good. I ask her if she wants to come along she says no.

She then wants to discuss finances more. She wants to know what I am doing with the money if I sell my truck.

She also wants me to contact a realtor tomorrow to sell our vacant property.

I ask her why she is going to marriage counseling? she says for our son. I tell her then lets use this Friday session to figure out how to tell our son because I am not going to remain in a marriage that my wife doesnt love me, or respect me, and wont commit to the marriage. I then told her I accept her decision to divorce, I am going to agree with what she wants and I am moving out tomorrow.

I told her we will figure out the finances this coming week when I can figure out what we are spending and where.

I told her I will file for Divorce as soon as my truck sells and I have the money for retainers.

she agrees. I tell her I dont want her to bring any men into my home while I agree to move in with my Dad.

I intend to have little to no contact. We are still going to the marriage counselor on Friday but I do not intend on seeing the wife after that. I am simply through with her crap and I am moving on. I am going Gucci on her.

Sorry it took this long.. she was playing me for time and I am not going to pay her damn bills while I am deployed so I am going to accelerate this.