What is and is not DBing

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I can't believe this unconcious argument stuff myself

I think that there are emotional patterns all of us aren't neccessarily very concious of that lead us to feel fear, anger, and all of their cousins.

And I think their are people who act on their emotions without regard to mores, values, and even evaluating probably consequences.

Prisons are full of them. Prisons, though, are a good example of trying to enforce some healthy boundaries.