Mila,
Enjoy the attention, but be VERY careful; you don't want to rebound!

Stay strong, but date yourself right now. There will be plenty of guys when you are ready. You have to know yourself again and what you want. You have to go and get your heart back before you can give it to anyone else.

It took me 18 months, but it was worth it. I just started to date a guy who's been divorced for 7 years....it's nice.

Remember, until you are healthy being alone again, you can't begin to think about being in a relationship. And, until you resolve everything from your past relationship you are not free to enter into a new relationship.

Wait it out, it will be worth it! Stay strong....


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B