it takes more logistical planning but it IS doable. Plus, you have 4 great kids and that makes you more attractive to many women, believe it or not.
My close friend and neighbor passed away suddenly at age 42, with 4 kids. Her h is a great guy and we were So sad for him. He's been struggling emotionally to deal with it (yes, truly, they had a very warm and loving marriage with a lot of passion and commitment and it kills me to know how good it was for them only to have it cut short). ANYHOW he 's finally dating and he has found a wonderful woman with one child of her own. She's a lot like his late wife, in a good way. She cannot have any more children but always wished she had a daughter. My friend the widower, has 3 motherless daughters...yes, there IS a God. When you're ready down the road, IF the time comes, I'll pass on his dating advice b/c he sure put some thought into it and it sure has paid off. thank God.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
