well yes he is someone of interest to her, obviously. I know this hurts but you must detach. The more you prolong her ability to dump stuff on you and not handle her "new lovely life" the more you delay her facing reality. make sense?
It's a journey you cannot take for her. Sorry buddy. I know it sucks. But don't fret too much. OM has flaws you won't have. NO ONE IS PERFECT and some of his faults will not be ones you have AND he's not the father of her children. Trust me on this, unless she has zilch maternal feelings, it will matter to her. In time...but where will you be then? that's where YOU get to answer with, "Oh, ME? I will be in my new life meeting interesting people, going to exciting places and doing fun, fascinating things." IOW, You'll be a man only a fool would leave. And yes you can do this with 4 kids. I
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
